{"id":7,"date":"2013-02-05T09:30:46","date_gmt":"2013-02-05T09:30:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/?page_id=7"},"modified":"2017-05-22T12:02:17","modified_gmt":"2017-05-22T12:02:17","slug":"sequence-2-1","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/archive\/sequence-2-1\/","title":{"rendered":"SEQUENCE 2.1 (2013)"},"content":{"rendered":"<h5 style=\"padding-left: 30px; text-align: right;\" align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">ISSN 2052-3033<\/span> (Online)<\/h5>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;\" align=\"center\"><b>\u2018A HATRED SO INTENSE\u2026\u2019<\/b><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;\" align=\"center\"><b><i>We Need to Talk about Kevin<\/i>, Postfeminism and Women\u2019s Cinema<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence\/files\/2013\/10\/SEQUENCE-2.12013.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">PDF Version<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;\" align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/about-sequence-two\/sequence-two-contributors\/#thornham\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Sue Thornham<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px; text-align: right;\" align=\"center\">[toc]<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Children are an obsession in American movies \u2026 The sacrifice of and for children \u2013 two sides of the same coin \u2013 is a disease passing for a national virtue\u2026. Both of these transactions represent beautifully masked wish fulfillments, suggesting that the myth of obsession \u2013 the love lavished, the attention paid to children \u2026 \u2013 is compensation for women\u2019s guilt, for the deep inadmissible feelings of not wanting children, or not wanting them unreservedly, in the first place. (Haskell 1987: 168-70)<\/p>\n<p>This description, first published in 1974, is of the \u2018sacrifice\u2019 film, which Molly Haskell sees as the paradigmatic form of the woman\u2019s film of the 1930s and 40s. Haskell\u2019s account of this \u2018hatred so intense it must be disguised as love\u2019 (ibid.: 169) is remarkable, not only because it runs counter to other feminist accounts of the subject positions into which the \u2018woman\u2019s film\u2019 draws its female viewers,[1. See in particular Mary Ann Doane (1989), who argues that female masochism functions as a substitute for female <i>desire. <\/i>See also Tania Modleski (1982), E. Ann Kaplan (1983) and Linda Williams (1984).] but also because the active subject position that it insists on is that of the <i>mother<\/i>. Thirty-seven years later, at a time when an American \u2018new momism\u2019 or \u2018mommy mystique\u2019 has been seen not only as culturally dominant[2. See Douglas and Michaels (2004), Warner (2006), Podnieks and O\u2019Reilly (eds.) (2010), Karlyn (2011). The term \u2018momism\u2019 was coined by Philip Wylie in <i>Generation of Vipers <\/i>(1942). \u201cMommy mystique\u2019 references Friedan\u2019s \u2018Feminine Mystique\u2019 (Friedan 1963).] but as \u2018the central, justifying ideology of what has come to be termed \u201cpostfeminism\u201d\u2019 (Douglas and Michaels 2004: 24), such hatred is also the subject of Lynne Ramsay\u2019s 2011 film, <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin. <\/i>The \u2018new momism\u2019, writes Kathleen Rowe Karlyn, which purports to celebrate intensive mothering as the liberated woman\u2019s enlightened <i>choice<\/i>, in fact replaces subservience to a husband with subservience to the child (2011: 3). Just as Ramsay\u2019s <i>Morvern Callar <\/i>(2002) deploys its intensely realized surreal sequences \u2013 sequences which \u2018stick inside you like shrapnel, like repressed thoughts\u2019 (Williams 2002: 25) &#8211; to re-work, disturbingly, a postfeminist narrative of youthful female empowerment, so her most recent film, I argue, subjects to similar critical re-appraisal this latest postfeminist celebration of feminine fulfilment.<\/p>\n<h4><b>1. Counter-Cinemas and Mainstream Traditions<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>The figure of the mother preoccupied feminist filmmakers as well as feminist critics of the 1970s. Documentaries like <i>Joyce at 34 <\/i>(Chopra and Weill 1972) explored intergenerational relationships between women, and the maternal relationship is central to experimental films such as Michelle Citron\u2019s <i>Daughter Rite <\/i>(1978) and Chantal Akerman\u2019s <i>Jeanne Dielman, 23 Quai du Commerce, 1080 Bruxelles <\/i>(1975). Akerman\u2019s film, argues Sandy Flitterman-Lewis, is crucial to feminist conceptions of a counter-cinema, constituting a key element in a counter-tradition of \u2018cinematic resistance\u2019 to identifications of femininity with domesticity and to the dominant narrative conventions through which these have been expressed. Like its cinematic \u2018ancestor\u2019, Germaine Dulac\u2019s <i>La Souriante Madame Beudet <\/i>(The Smiling Madame Beudet 1923), Akerman\u2019s film, she writes, is an exploration of \u2018the frozen perimeters of domestic space\u2019. The protagonists of both films, middle-aged women who have become \u2018robots, monsters or both\u2019, experience an eruption of murderous rage which is the product of the \u2018stifling domesticity\u2019 within which their ordered bourgeois lives are contained (2003: 27-8) [<em>Figure 1 below<\/em>].<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-135\" src=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-1.jpg\" alt=\"Figure 1: From La Souriante Madame Beudet (Germaine Dulac,1923) and Jeanne Dielman, 23 Quai du Commerce, 1080 Bruxelles (Chantal Akerman,1975)\" width=\"600\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-1-300x141.jpg 300w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-1-624x294.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><i>We Need to Talk about Kevin<\/i>, Ramsay\u2019s film adapted from Lionel Shriver\u2019s 2003 novel, needs, I argue, to be added to this matriarchal genealogy. <i>Jeanne Dielman\u2026<\/i>, as Flitterman-Lewis writes, replaces the oppressive husband as representative patriarchal figure &#8211; the core of Dulac\u2019s earlier film \u2013 with the teenage son, whose taken-for-granted precedence, despite his marginal presence in the film, now defines the terms and limits of his mother\u2019s world. Ramsay\u2019s film goes further in placing the mother-son relationship \u2013 with all its contemporary as well as mythical resonances \u2013 at its centre. It does this, however, in a way that also represents a significant shift of focus. Akerman\u2019s film, like that of Citron, is a <i>daughter\u2019s<\/i> film, concerned to register both an ambivalent identification with the mother and directorial separation from her complicity with patriarchal norms and structures. Teresa de Lauretis has argued that there are \u2018two logics\u2019 at work in the film: \u2018character and director, image and camera\u2019. The two can be equated, she writes, with femininity and feminism, with the former \u2018made representable by the critical work\u2019 of the latter (1989: 132). A similar argument is made by Janet Bergstrom, for whom the feminism of the film lies in its framing of the mother through a gaze which is unequivocally that of the daughter: on the one hand distanced and controlling but on the other obsessed and fascinated \u2013 an \u2018image of the old viewed actively, with fascination\u2019 (1977: 118). Akerman herself has said that its point of view is \u2018always me\u2019 (1977: 119). For de Lauretis and Bergstrom, as for other contemporary critics of the film,[3. See for example Ruth Perlmutter (1979).] subjectivity, agency and authorship are aligned with the position of daughter and constituted through the separation of her authorising gaze from the mother who remains its object.<\/p>\n<p>This subject\/object, daughter\/mother split, as Kaja Silverman has pointed out (1988: 210), is not nearly as fully achieved in Akerman\u2019s film as is suggested by Bergstrom and de Lauretis \u2013 critics who are themselves clearly aligned with the ambivalences of her position. The obsessive self-control which is ruptured by Jeanne\u2019s unwitting experience of orgasm and the ensuing murder of her client &#8211; the central, disruptive event of the film &#8211; is paralleled by a rupturing of the film\u2019s formal \u2018purity\u2019, as Akerman herself has suggested.[4. Akerman talks of \u2018certain people\u2019 who \u2018hate this murder and say, \u201cYou have to be more pure.\u201d\u2019 (1977: 120).] Not only do we see the murder, but we see it through a complex series of mirrored shots which, as Flitterman-Lewis argues, give us access to Jeanne\u2019s point of view, an access denied elsewhere (2003: 38-9). The feminist author, it seems, can not be so clearly distanced from her maternal other, from the \u2018monstrous\u2019 eruption of desire and rage, and from the excesses of narrative cinema, as Akerman\u2019s early critics wished to claim. But the <i>desire<\/i> for such a separation \u2013 and with it for what Silverman sees as a fantasy of \u2018unproblematic agency\u2019 for women (ibid.: 209) \u2013 is bound up with a good many feminist attempts to assert female subjectivity, agency and authorship, whether in critical writing or in filmmaking.[5. For more detailed discussion of issues around female authorship and filmmaking, see my <i>What if I Had Been the Hero? <\/i>(2012).] It is a desire that is refused in Ramsay\u2019s film.<\/p>\n<p>Feminist counter-cinema, of course, is not the only antecedent of <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin<\/i>. I have already referred to the \u2018woman\u2019s film\u2019 or maternal melodrama, whose subject matter it echoes. In a suggestive essay Vivian Sobchack brings together discussion of this genre\u2019s successor, the American \u2018family melodrama\u2019 of the 1970s and 80s, with that of its obverse and complement, the child-centred horror film of the same period. In the 1970s, writes Sobchack, a period characterized by counter-cultural youth movements and apocalyptic cultural anxiety, the children of both genres were depicted as \u2018uncivilized, hostile, and powerful Others\u2019 who mocked and threatened \u2018the established values of dominant institutions\u2019 through \u2018unwarranted and irrational\u2019 eruptions of anger and violence (1996: 150). By the end of a decade of second-wave feminist activity, however, the dynamic of the cinematic family had shifted: the child had become hero and victim in a family structure now threatened by a \u2018hard, strong and selfish\u2019 <i>mother<\/i>. In <i>Kramer vs. Kramer <\/i>(1979), a paradigmatic text in this shift, the mother\u2019s proclamation of her \u2018right to a life of [her] own\u2019 is expressed in the language of second wave feminism, the father has become vulnerable and maternal, and it is the (male) child who \u2018has the power to authorize the family, \u2026 who denies or legitimates the particular family\u2019s existence as a viable structure\u2019 (ibid.: 154-5). Patriarchal rage at threats to its power has here given way, writes Sobchack, to an image of paternal vulnerability and helplessness, with the male child now the generic representative of (a benevolent and reborn) patriarchal law. This shift occurs, she argues, in response to a feminist challenge which forces a conceptual gap between patriarchy as political and economic power structure and paternity as personal and subjective relation. Mainstream cinema\u2019s response to this troubling disarticulation is to produce (feminist) mothers as cold and powerful figures who must re-learn maternal softness if they are to be redeemed, children\/sons as wise innocents who must effect the re-normalisation of the bourgeois family, and the home as problematic and contested site.<\/p>\n<p>In the films that Sobchack discusses the mother is a marginalized figure: their focus is on relations between patriarchy and paternity, and between father and son. If their narratives suggest \u2018a crisis of belief in the Oedipal model\u2019 (ibid.: 156), then they are primarily concerned to reinstate that model. Thirty years later, the elements that Sobchack sees as expressions of bourgeois America\u2019s \u2018political unconscious\u2019[6. Sobchack 1996: 160. The reference is to Fredric Jameson\u2019s <i>The Political Unconscious: Narrative as Socially Symbolic Act <\/i>(1983).] have become the subject matter of Ramsay\u2019s film, but it is the mother\u2019s subjectivity through which they are explored. Eva\u2019s obsessive sense of order and desire for control, the stifling and \u2018frozen\u2019 quality of the domestic space which characterises the house that \u2018seem[s] like a set\u2019,[7. Ramsay\u2019s comment, quoted in <i>Sight and Sound <\/i>21:11, p.18.] the distancing effect of much of the film\u2019s framing all recall the feminist inheritance of Akerman\u2019s film, as do the recurring mirror shots of the female protagonist \u2013 central also to Dulac\u2019s <i>\u00a0Madame Beudet<\/i>. But the mirror shot is also central to the mainstream maternal melodrama: Madame Beudet\u2019s gaze at her reflection in the triple mirror of her dressing table is echoed in <i>Stella Dallas <\/i>fourteen years later, and in its many successors [<em>Figure 2 below<\/em>]. Similarly, if Ramsay\u2019s Kevin is the successor to Akerman\u2019s Sylvain, then with his violence, mockery of parental authority and unreadable self-possession he is also and far more obviously successor to both the monstrous children of 1970s horror[8. Interviewed for the 2012 DVD release of the film (Artificial Eye), Ezra Miller (Kevin) commented uneasily, \u2018This isn\u2019t <i>The Omen<\/i>\u2019<i>. <\/i>References to <i>The Omen <\/i>(1976) and to <i>Rosemary\u2019s Baby<\/i> (1968) can be found in many of the reviews of the film.] and, in an ironic gesture, to the wise innocents that succeeded them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137\" src=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-2.jpg\" alt=\"Figure 2: From La Souriante Madame Beudet (Germaine Dulac,1923), Stella Dallas (King Vidor, 1937) and We Need to Talk about Kevin (Lynne Ramsay, 2011)\" width=\"600\" height=\"638\" srcset=\"https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-2.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-2-282x300.jpg 282w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-2-963x1024.jpg 963w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-2-624x663.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><b>2. \u2018We ain\u2019t the 1950s anymore\u2019<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>Interviewed for the DVD of <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin<\/i>, actor John C. Reilly (Franklin), seeking to signal changes within the American nuclear family, settles for a stumbling, \u2018There\u2019s a lot changing in our world, and we ain\u2019t the fifties anymore, you know what I mean\u2019. Whilst Reilly\u2019s comment refers us back to a time of imagined familial stability and gender certainty, a very different referencing of the 1950s has been made by critics of the \u2018new momism\u2019 which emerged in the America of the 1990s. For Douglas and Michaels, this \u2018retro version of motherhood\u2019 is the contemporary version of Friedan\u2019s \u2018feminine mystique\u2019, the idealized image of domestic femininity that for Friedan dominated 1950s America. What is different, however, is the postfeminist notion of <i>choice<\/i>. The logic, they write, goes as follows: \u2018Feminism won; you can have it all; of course you want children; mothers are better at raising children than fathers; of course your children come first; \u2026 today\u2019s children need constant attention and cultivation, or they\u2019ll become failures and hate you forever\u2026.; and whoops &#8211; here we are in 1954\u2019 (2004: 5, 25). In such a scenario, whilst feminism <i>cannot<\/i> be returned to, since \u2018we are, and will be forever more, in a post feminist age\u2019 (ibid.: 24), this \u2018retro momism\u2019 encounters no such barriers since it acknowledges the gains of feminism and is freely chosen.<\/p>\n<p>One outcome of this emphasis on \u2018intensive mothering\u2019 as <i>choice<\/i> is, as Andrea O\u2019Reilly (2010) has written, an extraordinary explosion of \u2018mommy memoirs\u2019. An Amazon search reveals titles ranging from the <i>Joys of\u2026 <\/i>variety to <i>Surviving the Shattered Dreams<\/i>, <i>The Madness of Motherhood, Strategies for Coping\u2026, The Guilt that Keeps on Giving, <\/i>and from self-help books to \u2018stories of reluctant motherhood\u2019 and reflections on the difficulties of reconciling career and maternity. Most are first person narratives cataloguing the difficulties and disappointments but ultimately the redemptive power of motherhood. Three themes, argues O\u2019Reilly, are central to the genre\u2019s ideological stance: first, that \u2018mothering is <i>natural <\/i>to women and essential to their being\u2019; second, that \u2018the mother is to be the central caregiver of her biological children\u2019; and finally that \u2018children require full-time mothering\u2019 (2010: 206). Thus whilst motherhood is given a public voice in these memoirs that so often catalogue the impossibilities of its demands, their framing by the \u2018new momism\u2019 limits what that voice can say. The genre \u2018remains one of complaint and not change\u2019. Despite its claims to speak for a new maternal <i>subject<\/i>, it remains trapped within a discourse that \u2018naturalizes and normalizes\u2019 the very conditions against which it protests (ibid.: 212, 205).<\/p>\n<p>Underlying the power of these discursive constraints is a more deep-rooted conceptual opposition between motherhood and agency or subjecthood. Marianne Hirsch, among others, points to the way in which in psychoanalytic theories of the subject, the mother \u2018exists only in relation to her child\u2026. She cannot be the subject of her own discourse\u2019 (1992: 252). Luce Irigaray (1985) and Mich\u00e8le le Doeuff (2002) have extended this argument, arguing that Western philosophical discourse as a whole is constituted upon exclusion of, and opposition to, the female (maternal) body. The problem, in each case, is the <i>embodied <\/i>quality of maternity. In Julia Kristeva\u2019s description:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Cells fuse, split, and proliferate; volumes grow, tissues stretch, and body fluids change rhythm, speeding up and slowing down. Within the body, growing as a graft, indomitable, there is an other. And no one is present, within that simultaneously dual and alien space, to signify what is going on. \u201cIt happens, but I\u2019m not there.\u201d \u201cI cannot realize it, but it goes on.\u201d\u00a0 (1980: 237)<\/p>\n<p>For Kristeva, who writes within the psychoanalytic tradition that Hirsch critiques, this is \u2018Motherhood\u2019s impossible syllogism\u2019 (ibid.), placing mothers always on the side of the non-symbolic, \u2018more of a <i>filter <\/i>than anyone else \u2013 a thoroughfare, a threshold where \u201cnature\u201d confronts \u201cculture\u201d&#8217; (ibid.: 238). Like Simone de Beauvoir, whose feminism is always that of the daughter, Kristeva sees the maternal body as inimical to subjectivity. As subject, writes de Beauvoir, woman feels herself to be a stranger in a body which is \u2018absorption, suction, humus, pitch and glue, a passive influx, insinuating and viscous\u2019 (1988; 286, 407). This maternal body, as it is for Kristeva, is the stuff of horror.<\/p>\n<p>Other feminist theorists, however, have argued differently. Jane Gallop, advocating a feminist \u2018thinking through the body\u2019, argues that it is the \u2018mind-body split\u2019 of Western philosophical tradition that \u2018makes the mother into an inhuman monster\u2019 by separating the realm of culture and history from that of embodied motherhood (1988: 2). Christine Battersby, drawing on Irigaray,[9. Battersby acknowledges a number of precursors: in addition to Irigaray, Adorno, Deleuze, Butler and, more surprisingly, Kierkegaard (1998: 7).] similarly calls for a \u2018fleshy metaphysics\u2019 and a model of subjectivity which would take the <i>female <\/i>rather than the male subject as norm. Such a move would involve accepting that in Western philosophy and culture the identification of female identity with embodiment inevitably allies it also with \u2018the anomalous, the monstrous, the inconsistent and the paradoxical\u2019. But, she argues, this identification should be embraced not rejected. In insisting that identity is <i>always <\/i>embodied, it \u2018allows us to think identity otherwise\u2019. The subject that is thus constructed is neither free and autonomous nor simply passive. Instead it is fluid, transformed over time and through relationships, both shaped by others <i>and<\/i> \u2018self-shaping\u2019 (1998: 11, 12).<\/p>\n<p>A subjectivity which is maternally embodied \u2013 or which permits always the <i>possibility <\/i>of maternity \u2013 is not only irreconcilable with traditional philosophical conceptions of the free and autonomous subject, however. It is also very difficult to reconcile with the self-fashioning mobility which has been seen to characterize both the individualized subject of neo-liberal late modernity (Bauman 2001), and its \u2018nomadic\u2019 feminist counterpart (Braidotti 1994).[10. Although Braidotti herself insists that her feminist \u2018nomadic subject\u2019 is an \u2018embodied subject\u2019 (1994: 199), her concept of a constantly shifting, \u2018transitory\u2019 subject freed from \u2018the illusion of ontological foundations\u2019 (ibid.: 35) seems irreconcilable with a maternal subject.] Recent meta-narratives of social transformation have suggested that historical shifts in modernity have produced new and expanded opportunities for women, so that young women now can, and indeed must, plan \u2018a life of one\u2019s own\u2019 in place of the \u2018living for others\u2019 that traditionally circumscribed women\u2019s lives (Beck and Beck-Gernsheim 2001: 75). Yet, as a number of feminist critics have argued (McRobbie 2009, Negra 2008), this self-fashioning individualised female subject who is thus identified with \u2018capacity, success, attainment, entitlement, social mobility and participation\u2019 (McRobbie 2009: 57) is a <i>girl<\/i>, or at the least a pre- or non-maternal woman. As a result, one effect of such narratives is to reinscribe the distinction between selfhood and (maternal) female embodiment: as individualised subjects women are urged to mobility and self-definition; as <i>mothers<\/i> they are re-embodied and returned to place. Women, as Patrice DiQuinzio argues, \u2018can be subjects of agency and entitlement only to the extent that they are not mothers, and [\u2026] mothers as such cannot be subjects of individualist agency and entitlement\u2019 (1999: 13). It seems, as Elizabeth Reid Boyd suggests, that this apparent division <i>between<\/i> women masks a far more powerful conceptual dualism: that between male and female. In a dualistic framework in which men are defined as subjects and\/because they are <i>not-mothers<\/i> and women are defined as <i>mothers<\/i>, she argues, the gendered dualisms that follow \u2013 between mind\/body, culture\/nature, public\/private and so on \u2013 remain fundamentally undisturbed, despite their apparent displacement onto conflicts between or even within women. From this perspective, the newfound mobility and individualisation of the young female subject will always be precarious in its temporal boundedness \u2013 a sort of \u2018restless \u2026 transvestite\u2019 fantasy, to borrow Laura Mulvey\u2019s words (1989: 37). The (white Western) female subject who becomes a mother, meanwhile, finds herself in a culture which insists on her capacity for individualised choice even as it demonstrates its impossibility.<\/p>\n<h4><b>3. Eva and Son<\/b><\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">A mother is only brought unlimited satisfaction by her relation to a son; this is altogether the most perfect, the most free from ambivalence of all human relationships. (Freud 1973\/1932: 168)<\/p>\n<p>In the world of Ramsay\u2019s <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin <\/i>the separation of which Sobchack writes, between paternity as personal and subjective relation and the political and economic power structures of patriarchy, seems complete. It is Franklin who asks plaintively when Eva is coming home, who holds the newborn Kevin, talks babytalk to him, and attends to his needs during the night. Eva, in contrast, has a public presence and image. It is Eva, too, who makes decisions about conception as she does about travel; both are adventures of the body, undertaken as a matter of choice. The film\u2019s fragmented, flashback structure, however, frames these choices always in relation to their limitations and to their aftermath, which sometimes inverts and sometimes mimics them to parodic effect. The limitations are depicted through the film\u2019s emphasis on institutional spaces. In the vast, white, symmetrically framed corridors of the recreation centre, the hospital, the supermarket and the prison Eva\u2019s agency is removed: she is a pregnant body among others, surrounded by the identically dressed little girls who prefigure the motherhood to come; and she is a mother standing or sitting in line, awaiting the decisions of others. Once a mother, she can no longer insist on staying in New York, and the \u2018castle\u2019 (Franklin\u2019s words) in the suburbs to which she is removed is filmed with the same wide lens and emphasis on symmetry: it, too, is vast, ordered, white, and, as Ramsay said, \u2018like a set\u2019. With a reference to Woolf (\u2018Everybody needs a room of their own\u2019), Eva constructs within it a private space papered with maps and decorated with exotic masks, only to find it not simply invaded but vandalised by Kevin, its fantasy of other places permanently disfigured and smeared with paint. In more direct inversions and references, the red-saturated <i>jouissance <\/i>of Valencia\u2019s La Tomatina festival, which is the film\u2019s first flashback, is replaced first by the jam with which Kevin smears his sandwiches and then by the regimented tins of tomato soup behind which Eva takes refuge in the supermarket. The images which line the office of Eva\u2019s travel writing firm, meanwhile, with their promise of \u2018Escape\u2019[11. Escape is the name of Eva\u2019s travel writing company.] into the exoticism of Thailand and Vietnam, are replaced by the cheaper, mass-produced posters in the downmarket travel agency, Travel R Us, in which she now finds a low-grade job.<\/p>\n<p>This structure of ironic echoes and inversions frames Eva\u2019s choices. Franklin\u2019s genial paternalism, despite its overt refusal of authority, is rendered powerful by the structures that support it, and its careful separation of ordered suburban \u2018castle\u2019 from the disorder of the outside world masks a refusal to recognize the violence which is inside the home. That this is a specifically <i>American<\/i> hypocrisy is made clear when Kevin enters the school sports hall that will be the scene of his mass slaughter. As he pushes open the double doors we are faced by twin signs exhorting \u2018Pride\u2019 and \u2018Focus\u2019, the latter defined as \u2018Concentration of the mind such that <i>nothing<\/i> distracts you from your task\u2019. Between them, exemplifying these virtues, is the image of a face which could be Kevin\u2019s. Later, inside the hall, he turns to face the US flag and bows, then stretches wide his arms as the lighting, with its red and blue horizontal bars against the white of the hall, reminds us that the film\u2019s dominant colours of red and white, so often contrasted in the film, together make up the American flag.<\/p>\n<p>The violence at the heart of Kevin\u2019s perfectly controlled performance of these all-American values in the slaughter of his classmates is also seen elsewhere in the film. It is there, grotesquely, in the clown faces \u2018straight out of a horror film\u2019 (McGill 2011: 18) on the office walls of the paediatrician to whom Eva takes Kevin; it is there in the Halloween costumes and demands for \u2018trick or treat\u2019 of the children who menace Eva on her return from work, their hostility intercut with instances of Kevin\u2019s own childhood anger; and it is there in the Robin Hood story (\u2018Again he shot and again he smote the arrow close beside the centre\u2019) and the videogames with which Eva and Franklin seek to establish \u2018normal\u2019 parental closeness with their son. It is also there, menacingly, in the response of Eva\u2019s co-worker Colin, when she rejects his advances amidst the forced jollity and drunken detritus of the office Christmas party. This is a society whose institutions, with their order, controlled cleanliness and enforced optimism, both control and deny the disorder and dirt of <i>bodies<\/i>, with a resulting violence that is barely repressed. In the fractured narrative of the film\u2019s present Eva will spend the whole of the film trying to remove all traces of red from the white surface of her new home. The red, of course, will return, inside the house as well as on its walls and windows.<\/p>\n<p>Eva\u2019s own \u2018nomadism\u2019, as a number of commentators on Shriver\u2019s novel have pointed out,[12. See Evans (2009), Jeremiah (2010), and Gambaudo (2011). Evans reads Shriver\u2019s Kevin as \u2018a metaphor for the contemporary US, a country literally unable to \u201cbehave\u201d\u2019 (2009: 148).] is as much a product of American values as Franklin\u2019s buddy-ism and Kevin\u2019s ironic gesture to the US flag. Her first flashback is to the ecstasy of La Tomatina, where bodies fill the screen: plural, viscous and grub-like, smeared with the red pulp into which Eva is lowered in a gesture of total surrender [<em>Figure 3 below<\/em>]. This is a <i>jouissance <\/i>which is also abjection, recalling the blurring of boundaries between human and non-human, bodies and organic waste which is the stuff of horror.[13. It recalls, for example, the equally ambiguous gesture of a resurrected Ripley sinking into the moist, absorbing body of the alien in <i>Alien Resurrection <\/i>(1997).] In Kristeva\u2019s description: \u2018The clean and proper \u2026 becomes filthy, the sought-after turns into the banished, fascination into shame. \u2026 one joys in it. Violently and painfully. A passion\u2019 (1982: 8-9). For Eva, however, the scene is safely <i>elsewhere<\/i>, part of the \u2018Legendary Adventures\u2019 of \u2018Escape\u2019 of which she is the acclaimed writer. The affluent, ordered offices of Eva\u2019s travel writing company, with their posters offering fantasies of exotic indulgence, remind us that this adventure in mobility and choice is in fact an imperial one, whose success depends on the turning of embodied excess into a commodity which can be bought and experienced \u2013 always elsewhere &#8211; by the rational Western subject.[14. For the history of this theme in Western writing see Anne McClintock, <i>Imperial Leather: Race, Gender and Sexuality in the Colonial Contest<\/i> (1995).] It is a project which is already corrupt before its degradation into its tawdry successor in Eva\u2019s life, Travel R Us.[15. Even here we see a hierarchy of privilege. The cleaner who silently compels Eva to leave the office when she is working late is clearly an immigrant worker, excluded from the promises of Travel R Us.]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-32.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-148\" src=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-32.jpg\" alt=\"Figure 3: From We Need to Talk About Kevin (Lynne Ramsay, 2011)\" width=\"600\" height=\"364\" srcset=\"https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-32.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-32-300x182.jpg 300w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-32-624x378.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In Ramsay\u2019s film, however, the La Tomatina scene is not, or not simply, an encounter by the self with the exotic and feminised other. It is the first instance of an intensity which repeatedly splinters the film\u2019s realist surface: dreamlike, incorporating both corporeal fragments and intense light, but insistently present. The flashback occurs immediately after the film\u2019s opening sequence and forms a counterpoint to it.\u00a0 In this sequence the camera, following what we later find to be Eva\u2019s point of view, approaches the billowing, semi-sheer white curtains which form a growing point of light against the surrounding darkness. As we get closer, however, we do not see <i>through<\/i> the curtains; instead we become conscious of their texture until they become simply whiteness and we see only the dazzlingly bright screen itself.<\/p>\n<p>The camera, then, draws us to the window but bars our access to the scene of horror beyond, replacing it first with the screen and then with the memory of La Tomatina. The edit serves to parallel the two scenes, of ecstasy and familial murder, and to add to the undertone of horror in the former. Within Franklin\u2019s suburban \u2018castle\u2019 Eva will try to recreate her exotic memories of \u2018otherness\u2019 in the maps and masks which cover the walls of her study, but when Kevin smears and splatters them with paint she does not redecorate. As in the brief scene where we see her, after the ecstasy of the La Tomatina festival, now simply dirty and alone in an alien street among fellow tourists, turning to camera as if bewildered and lost, Eva\u2019s separation of order from the exoticised ecstasy of disorder is never quite secure, the violence produced by such splitting never quite repressed.<\/p>\n<p>Eva enters pregnancy, too, in a spirit of controlled adventure.[16. In Shriver\u2019s novel, Eva comments, \u2018Motherhood, \u2026 Now that is a foreign country\u2019 (2003: 22).] The moment of conception is chosen and noted precisely: 12:01. Yet what Ramsay\u2019s camera then shows us is the alien stickiness of cells dividing and reproducing, in another image that insists on the <i>dis<\/i>order, the uncontrollability and the strangeness of the embodied. The moment of childbirth is similarly doubled: if the final shot is a wide-angled shot of a perfectly ordered institutional cell, in which Eva sits isolated from baby and husband, the scene of childbirth that precedes it is shot through the distorting mirror of the huge hospital light, so that, in an echo of earlier horror films, Eva is reduced to a melting, misshapen eye and a mouth that screams [<em>Figure 4 below<\/em>].[17. In Michael Powell\u2019s <i>Peeping Tom <\/i>(1960) the female victims are forced to gaze at their distorted images in the camera\u2019s mirror.] This scene in turn follows in continuous sound that of a prisoner screaming as he is restrained.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-141\" src=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-4.jpg\" alt=\"Figure 4: From We Need to Talk About Kevin (Lynne Ramsay, 2011)\" width=\"600\" height=\"638\" srcset=\"https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-4.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-4-282x300.jpg 282w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-4-963x1024.jpg 963w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-4-624x663.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In the scenes of Kevin\u2019s infancy and childhood that follow, Eva\u2019s resistance to absorption into motherhood is depicted as discomfort with the body. From the repeated instructions of the midwife during childbirth \u2013 \u2018Stop <i>resisting<\/i>, Eva\u2019 &#8211; to Eva\u2019s sidelong glances of dislike at the bodies that surround her in a pregnancy class, and thence to her insistence on maintaining distance from Kevin\u2019s body and actions, Eva\u2019s constant effort is to recover control through discipline and training. In a reversal of conventional gender assumptions, it is Kevin who represents the anarchic excesses of the body, from the alien viscosity of his conception to the food and faeces which he smears, throws and expels, and later to the discomfiting sexuality which he displays in front of Eva. Kevin denies her control, refusing her transformation of the unknown into an exercise of mapping, of motherhood into a teaching relationship. Instead, his behaviour insists on the messiness of the body, on the fleshy, the organic, the abject \u2013 and insists that Eva recognize this, together with her own rage and fear at her entrapment. It is an embodiment that always threatens violence, and that draws a complicit violence from Eva. In contrast, Kevin\u2019s sister Celia is the image of compliant girlhood, her father\u2019s \u2018princess\u2019; only her red shoes and the disconcertingly aggressive games that she plays with her soft toys and pet guinea pig[18. She dresses the guinea pig as Robin Hood in an echo of Kevin\u2019s violent fantasies.] suggest that this feminine compliance is bought at the cost of a repression which might mirror Eva\u2019s own.<\/p>\n<h4><b>4. Monstrous Doubling<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>Eva\u2019s apparent recovery of control during Kevin\u2019s adolescence is marked both by Kevin\u2019s own acquisition of a sense of order that parallels Eva\u2019s own and by her return to work. Eva is a travel writer, and it is the split between motherhood and <i>writing <\/i>which, for many feminist critics, most starkly figures the conceptual difficulties in imagining a maternal subject. Whilst Eva\u2019s own professional writing simply maintains the split \u2013 her books are \u2018legendary adventures\u2019 of \u00a0\u2018escape\u2019 \u2013 the dualities and difficulties that can be worked through textually in the novel are in Ramsay\u2019s film rendered in cinematic terms. The wide frame, the symmetry of the sets and square-on distancing of the framing, the emphasis on the frames of windows, mirrors and doors all make us conscious of the cinematic screen. But as we saw from the opening sequence, this is a screen which has a material presence and texture. In disorientating fragments, the visceral and the intensely detailed repeatedly fill it in close-up: the ants that crawl over Kevin\u2019s discarded sandwich, the fragments of eggshell that Eva picks out of her mouth, the fingernails that Kevin bites off and lays out. As Kevin fingers his scar or squelches the lychee in his mouth we are repeatedly reminded of the uncontrollable otherness of the body. Most of all, there is constant slippage between the two sets of images, between transparency and texture, and between image and sound. There is also, of course, slippage between Eva and Kevin. From the moment at the start of the film when Eva lowers her face into water and, as she shakes her head beneath the surface, it becomes Kevin\u2019s, the two are constantly doubled, their faces alternately paralleled and sliding together and then apart [<em>Figure 5 below<\/em>]. In this early sequence, as Eva lifts her head from the water she wipes her face and stares into a mirror, as if willing separation from her monstrous double. Later, as she gazes in fascination at the television screen on which Kevin is \u2018explaining\u2019 his crimes, the reflection of her face is half superimposed on his, dissolving into his more dominant features.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-5.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-150\" src=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-5.jpg\" alt=\"Figure 5: From We Need to Talk About Kevin (Lynne Ramsay, 2011)\" width=\"600\" height=\"1063\" srcset=\"https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-5.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-5-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-5-624x1105.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The idea of the child as monstrous double of the mother is one that has been explored in two very different places: in feminist writing and in the horror film. Adrienne Rich writes of \u2018the dread of giving birth to monsters\u2019 (1977: 164) and Phyllis Chesler calls her unborn child \u2018my monster, myself\u2019, wondering \u2018What if you\u2019re born \u2026 with my anger, my excesses?\u2019 (1998: 36, 101). For Rich, such anxieties are the product of patriarchal associations of childbirth with evil and the resulting internalised feelings of guilt \u2013 she points to the prevalence across cultures of notions of the female body as \u2018unclean, and as the embodiment of guilt\u2019 (1977: 164). She also points to women\u2019s repressed anger at the death of self which accompanies motherhood, quoting the following diary extract from Elizabeth Mann Borgese\u2019s <i>Ascent of Woman<\/i>:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">My face in the mirror looked alien to me. My character blurred. Childish violent desires, unknown to me, came over me, and childish violent dislikes. I am a coldly logical thinker, but \u2026 my reasoning blurred and dissolved\u2026 I was one and the other at once. It stirred inside of me. Could I control its movements with my will? Sometimes I thought I could, at other times I realized it was beyond my control. I couldn\u2019t control anything. I was not myself. And not for a brief passing moment of rapture, which men, too, may experience \u2026 Then it was born. I heard it scream with a voice that was no longer mine. (Borgese 1963: 45)<\/p>\n<p>Lucy Fischer draws upon such accounts in her analysis of Polanski\u2019s <i>Rosemary\u2019s Baby <\/i>(1968). She argues that the film acts as a \u2018skewed \u201cdocumentary\u201d\u2019 for its age, recording not only patriarchal horror at the maternal body and the birth process but also, and against the grain of much feminist writing of the time, \u2018women\u2019s private experience of pregnancy\u2019 (ibid.: 415).\u00a0 As applied to Polanski\u2019s film this seems to me to be a questionable argument, yet it is clear that the sense of maternal splitting and alienation that in the horror film generates the monstrous child has also been a key but repressed part of women\u2019s experience of maternity.<\/p>\n<p>That Eva\u2019s experience so precisely mirrors the autobiographical account quoted above, written at least fifty years earlier, suggests again how far the post-feminist insistence on \u2018intensive mothering\u2019 as <i>chosen <\/i>masks a continuing split between individualized subject and embodied maternity. Yet Ramsay\u2019s vision also differs profoundly both from these autobiographical accounts and from horror films like <i>Rosemary\u2019s Baby<\/i>, for its engagement with intensely realized but disturbing sensory experience is not simply localized in Eva. As with Ramsay\u2019s earlier films, both it and the elusive texture of brightness to which Eva is also drawn are features of the world portrayed in all its everydayness, from the ants that crawl over the discarded sandwich and the cigarette stubbed out in a Christmas cake to the texture of human nails and scar tissue. Like Eva, we must learn to see both not as elsewhere but as <i>here. <\/i><\/p>\n<h4><b>5. Memory Texts and Oedipus<\/b><\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">The memory text is typically a montage of vignettes, anecdotes, fragments, \u2018snapshots\u2019, flashes\u2026. All this produces a sense of synchrony, as if remembered events are somehow pulled out of a linear time-frame, or refuse to be anchored in real historical time. Memory texts are metaphorical rather than analogical: as such, they have more in common with poetry than with classical narrative. (Kuhn 2000: 190)<\/p>\n<p>Annette Kuhn\u2019s description of the formal properties of the \u2018memory text\u2019 is one she also applies to certain films. <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin <\/i>is not precisely such a text; as Tim Robey\u2019s review of the film states, Eva\u2019s flashbacks are not consciously invoked memories, but rather \u2018happen to her out of the blue\u2019 (2011: 79). Time slips, slides and collides, the sense of dislocation increased by the way in which sound may be clear or distorted, and may run on, precede or be superimposed onto quite different and temporally distant events. That this is Eva\u2019s perspective, however, is clear from the film\u2019s opening, when the camera adopts its point of view shot in the approach to what becomes a sheer white screen on which memories can be replayed. At the end of the film, when the sequence is repeated, Eva\u2019s identity as the author of that point of view is confirmed. If, however, the film, as in Kuhn\u2019s description, offers a \u2018montage of vignettes, \u2026 fragments\u2019, \u201csnapshots\u201d\u2019, it is also, as with the memory text, \u2018wrought into a \u201ctelling\u201d that is by its nature linear, syntagmatic\u2019 (ibid.). It is driven, until its final sequences, by Eva\u2019s drive to restore order, to cleanse the white walls of her home of all traces of red, to separate the screen, with its play of logical cause and effect, innocence and guilt \u2013 a logic which is also the stuff of fairytale \u2013 from the sensory disorder of lived experience.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018All narrative\u2019, writes Teresa de Lauretis, \u2018in its movement forward toward resolution and backward to an initial moment, a paradise lost, is overlaid with what has been called an Oedipal logic \u2013 the \u2026 quest for (self) knowledge through the realization of loss, to the making good of Oedipus\u2019 sight and the restoration of vision\u2019 (1984: 125-6). It is a formulation which Rita Felski has more recently disputed, seeing in it an essentialising of what is really simply a matter of historical male dominance. Plots are not, she writes, doomed to follow Oedipus, confining women to passivity and subordination. For women, a plot \u2018may be a playground as well as a prison-house\u2019 (2003: 106). Felski, I think, misreads de Lauretis\u2019 argument in seeing it as essentialist: Ramsay\u2019s film shows us just what a playground might be made of the Oedipal story itself, even whilst noting its cultural dominance. <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin <\/i>replays the Oedipal story \u2013 the son\u2019s usurpation and murder of the father, the disturbingly sexual overtones in the relationship between son and mother &#8211; but from the mother\u2019s perspective. This is Eva\u2019s story: Franklin is a peripheral figure and Kevin unknowable, narratively important, despite his cultural centrality, only insofar as he mirrors and impacts on Eva herself. It is Eva who investigates, who \u2018unveils\u2019, as Kristeva (1982: 83) describes Oedipus as doing, the corporeal \u2018defilement\u2019 that lies on the \u2018other side\u2019 of familial normality. When towards the end of the film, however, we finally step with her beyond the curtain to see the bodies of Celia and Franklin lying pierced with arrows on the lawn, the scene suggests the dangerous absurdity of the dominant cultural narratives with which we make sense of our lives. Celia remains her father\u2019s \u2018princess\u2019, still prettily dressed; Franklin, however, is both the fallen hero of myth and, wearing only a white towel round his waist, stripped to an absurd, infant-like nakedness. As Eva steps beyond the doorway, the sinister whirring which has accompanied the repeated sequence of her approach to the curtains is revealed to be the sound of the garden sprinkler system, which now bursts into celebratory life, to form decorative fountains behind the bodies. Unlike the female investigators of the \u2018paranoid sub-group\u2019 of the woman\u2019s film described by Mary Ann Doane (1988: 137), what Eva confronts on the other side of the door is not \u2018an aspect of herself\u2019, the other side of \u2018Janus-faced\u2019 woman (Kristeva 1982: 85). Instead, it is a realization not only of loss but also of the horror and absurdity at the heart of the narratives within which such losses are usually framed.<\/p>\n<p>Writing about the ending of Shriver\u2019s novel, Sylvie Gambaudo expresses disappointment. It is, she writes, \u2018unclear whether it is Kevin or [Eva] who is punished for his crimes\u2019. As she prepares a room in preparation for Kevin\u2019s release from prison, Eva \u2018leaves us with no hope to ever reconcile woman\u2019s split status\u2019, becoming \u2018the quintessential self-effacing mother who patiently awaits the return of the prodigal son\u2019. \u2018Woman\u2019, it seems, \u2018has to choose between motherhood and empowerment, as if the two could not co-exist\u2019 (2011: 167-8). At the end of Ramsay\u2019s film, too, Kevin\u2019s room has been decorated by Eva as a replica of his childhood bedroom, and the white house has been cleaned. A kind of unseeing order, an imaginary \u2018paradise lost\u2019, has, it seems, been restored, and Eva pauses briefly to contemplate it. Yet the film\u2019s fractured \u2018snapshots\u2019 do not allow it to end here. Towards the film\u2019s close there is a repeat of the sequence in which Eva lowers her face into water, with the camera positioned below the surface. This time, however, her face does not merge with Kevin\u2019s; he remains separate, resentful, flicking at the surface of the water into which she has removed herself. In her final prison visit the two are no longer mirrored; his head shaved, Kevin now seems both older and more childishly vulnerable. As the two look at each other and Eva asks for the first time, \u2018Why?\u2019, it is clear that Kevin is lost, bewildered and afraid. He no longer \u2018knows\u2019 why he committed the murders, and this, it seems, might be the beginning of responsibility. The hug that follows is awkward, but it seems, too, a recognition of both connectedness and difference. It follows an earlier physical contact in this final prison visit, where Eva reaches out to touch a distressed young black woman who waits with her, in a gesture that suggests a new capacity for disinterested empathy. As Eva leaves the prison, walking towards another doorway that is an expanding patch of sheer white light, the nuclear family, with its ritualised relationships, repressions, blurrings of identity and underlying violence, is broken. Eva\u2019s embrace of Kevin seems at once to insist on the maternal relation and a shared responsibility <i>and<\/i> to recognize Kevin\u2019s otherness, the separation of his body and actions from her own. Her final movement, however, is solitary, a movement outwards towards the future which, whilst it continues to insist on the inescapability of connection and responsibility for the maternal subject, nevertheless seems an affirmation of both subjectivity and agency [<em>Figure 6 below<\/em>].<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-167\" src=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-63.jpg\" alt=\"Figure 6: From We Need to Talk about Kevin (Lynne Ramsay, 2011)\" width=\"600\" height=\"1063\" srcset=\"https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-63.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-63-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Image-Fig-63-624x1105.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><b>6. Conclusion: the Great Divide?<\/b><\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">The mother hates her infant from the word go\u2026. If, for fear of what she may do, she cannot hate appropriately, when hurt by her child she must fall back on masochism, and I think that gives rise to the false theory of a natural masochism in women. (Winnicott 1984: 201-2)<\/p>\n<p>Reflecting on her 1970s conscious-raising group, Ann Snitow comments, \u2018We used to agree in those meetings that motherhood was the divide: Before it, you could pretend you were just like everyone else; afterward, you were a species apart \u2013 invisible and despised\u2019 (1990: 32). The tell-tale phrase here is \u2018everyone else\u2019, with its assumed masculinity: the feminist conflict that Snitow describes is between a desire for an identity not overdetermined by gender \u2013 a desire, in effect, not to <i>be<\/i> a woman &#8211; and a desire to construct solidarity around an embodied female experience. Forty years on, that \u2018everyone else\u2019 has been feminized: the \u2018female individualisation\u2019 which characterizes the contemporary moment means that (white Western) women, too, can, in Angela McRobbie\u2019s words, \u2018choose the kind of life they want to live. Girls must have a life-plan. They must become more reflexive in regard to every aspect of their lives\u2019 (2009: 19). The divide of which Snitow writes, however, not only remains but is now intensified. Maternity \u2013 the other side of the divide &#8211; retains its identification with place and the body. That the identities \u2018not-mother\u2019 or \u2018mother\u2019 have now been <i>freely chosen<\/i> serves simply to mask the continued centrality of a gender dualism which determines both our institutional structures and our public fantasies.<\/p>\n<p>Addressing this context, Ramsay\u2019s film refuses a closure which would insist on Eva\u2019s \u2018empowerment\u2019, as Gambaudo seems to desire.\u00a0 Her early self-fashioning \u2018nomadism\u2019 is an imperial adventure, as much a splitting off of bodily ecstasy from the self that will plan, map and write these adventures as the nineteenth century tales of masculine exploration which preceded it. In the \u2018adventure\u2019 in intensive mothering which follows, such splitting is no longer possible. Kevin, her monstrous double, demands an acknowledgement of the unruly body <i>within<\/i> the ordered domain of the white American suburban home. Like Winnicott\u2019s mother &#8211; the product of another era (the late 1940s) that saw women being urged back into the home &#8211; Eva responds with alternating hate and masochism.<\/p>\n<p>It is a response that recalls Eva\u2019s predecessors \u2013 the repressed middle-aged protagonists of Akerman\u2019s and Dulac\u2019s films. Unlike Akerman, however, Ramsay does not allow us the distance \u2013 and the optimism \u2013 of the daughter\u2019s perspective. Instead, it is Eva\u2019s fractured subjectivity, hate, and sense of guilt that we inhabit. As Ramsay has commented, there is no easy \u2018redemption\u2019 at the end of the film (O\u2019Hagan 2011). I would argue, however, that in Eva\u2019s final realisation of both the inescapability of her relationship \u2013 however ambivalent \u2013 with Kevin <i>and<\/i> his separateness from her, the film\u2019s ending points us beyond the twin fantasies of postfeminist maternal masochism and unproblematic feminist agency and towards the possibility of a subjectivity which might accept rather than deny the uncontrollable <i>messiness<\/i> of embodiment.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr align=\"left\" size=\"1\" width=\"33%\" \/>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4>Suggested Citation<\/h4>\n<p>Thornham, Sue. &#8216;&#8221;A HATRED SO INTENSE&#8230;.&#8221;: <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin<\/i>, Postfeminism and Women\u2019s Cinema&#8217;, <em>SEQUENCE: Serial Studies in Media, Film and Music<\/em>, 2.1, 2013. <span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">ISSN 2052-3033<\/span><span style=\"font-size: small;\"> (Online). <\/span>Online at:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/archive\/sequence-2-1\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/archive\/sequence-2-1\/<\/a><\/p>\n<h4><strong>Copyright Notice<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>Copyright \u00a9 2013 Sue Thornham<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sussex.ac.uk\/profiles\/166435\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><strong>S<em>ue Thornham<\/em><\/strong><\/strong><\/a><em> is the copyright holder of the above text<\/em><em>. In any future references to or uses of the above version of the work (including illustrations), please also acknowledge <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/archive\/sequence-2-1\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><em>SEQUENCE<\/em>, 2.1, 2013<\/strong><\/a><em> as its first place of publication.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>All images from <em>We Need to Talk about Kevin<\/em> reproduced above derive from frame grabs excerpted from the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.artificial-eye.com\/film.php?dvd=ART581DVD\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Artificial-Eye<\/a> DVD version of the film: \u00a9 2011\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/bbcfilms\/film\/we_need_to_talk_about_kevin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">BBC Films<\/a> and UK Film Council, in association with Footprint Investments LLP, Piccadilly Pictures and LipSync Productions, and Artina Films and Rockinghorse Films. They appear here solely for Fair Dealing (and <a title=\"Society of Cinema and Media Studies' Report on Fair Usage of Film Stills\" href=\"http:\/\/www.cmstudies.org\/?page=related_topics&amp;terms=fair+and+usage+and+of+and+film+and+stills\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Fair Use<\/a>) purposes of scholarship and criticism.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/reframe.sussex.ac.uk\/sequence2\/files\/2012\/12\/SEQUENCE-2-Published-by-SEQUENCE-footer-e1359968577524.jpg\" alt=\"SEQUENCE Two is a SEQUENCE and REFRAME Publication\" width=\"400\" height=\"88\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>References<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Akerman, Chantal (1977), \u2018Chantal Akerman on <i>Jeanne Dielman<\/i>\u2019, <i>Camera Obscura<\/i>, no. 2, pp. 118-21.<\/p>\n<p>Battersby, Christine (1998), <i>The Phenomenal Woman <\/i>(Cambridge: Polity).<\/p>\n<p>Bauman, Zygmunt (2001), <i>The Individualized Society <\/i>(Cambridge: Polity).<\/p>\n<p>Beck, Ulrich and Beck-Gernsheim, Elisabeth (2001), <i>Individualization\u00a0<\/i>(London: Sage).<\/p>\n<p>Bergstrom, Janet (1977), \u2018<i>Jeanne Dielman, 23 Quai du Commerce, 1080 Bruxelles <\/i>by Chantal Akerman\u2019, <i>Camera Obscura<\/i>, no. 2, pp. 114-8.<\/p>\n<p>Borgese, Elizabeth Mann (1963), <i>Ascent of Woman <\/i>(London: Macgibbon &amp; Kee).<\/p>\n<p>Braidotti, Rosi (1994), <i>Nomadic Subjects <\/i>(New York: Columbia University Press).<\/p>\n<p>Chesler, Phyllis (1998\/1979), <i>With Child <\/i>(New York\/London: Four Walls Eight Windows).<\/p>\n<p>de Beauvoir, Simone (1988\/1949), <i>The Second Sex<\/i>, trans. H. M. Parshley (London: Pan).<\/p>\n<p>De Lauretis, Teresa (1984), <i>Alice Doesn&#8217;t <\/i>(Basingstoke: Macmillan).<\/p>\n<p>De Lauretis, Teresa (1989), <i>Technologies of Gender: Essays on Theory, Film, and Fiction <\/i>(Basingstoke: Macmillan).<\/p>\n<p>Doane, Mary Ann (1988), <i>The Desire to Desire: The Woman&#8217;s Film of the 1940s<\/i> (Basingstoke: Macmillan).<\/p>\n<p>DiQuinzio, Patrice (1999), <i>The Impossibility of Motherhood <\/i>(Ithaca: Cornell University Press).<\/p>\n<p>Douglas, Susan J. and Michaels, Meredith W. (2004), <i>The Mommy Myth <\/i>(New York and London: Free Press).<\/p>\n<p>Evans, Mary (2009), <i>The Imagination of Evil <\/i>(London: Continuum).<\/p>\n<p>Felski, Rita (2003), <i>Literature after Feminism <\/i>(Chicago and London: University of Chicago Press).<\/p>\n<p>Fischer, Lucy (1996), \u2018Birth Traumas: Parturition and Horror in <i>Rosemary\u2019s Baby<\/i>\u2019. In Grant, B. K. (ed.), <i>The Dread of Difference: Gender and the Horror Film <\/i>(Austin: University of Texas Press), pp. 412-31.<\/p>\n<p>Flitterman-Lewis, Sandy (2003), \u2018What\u2019s Beneath her Smile? Subjectivity and Desire in Germaine Dulac\u2019s <i>The Smiling Madame Deudet <\/i>and Chantal Akerman\u2019s <i>Jeanne Dielman, 23 Quai du Commerce, 1080 Bruxelles. <\/i>In Foster, G. A. (ed.), <i>Identity and Memory: The Films of Chantal Akerman<\/i> (Carbondale and Edwardsville: Southern Illinois University Press), pp. 27-40.<\/p>\n<p>Freud, Sigmund (1973\/1932), \u2018Femininity\u2019. In Freud, <i>New Introductory Lectures on Psychoanalysis<\/i>, trans. J. Strachey (London: Penguin), pp. 145- 69.<\/p>\n<p>Friedan, Betty (1965\/1963), <i>The Feminine Mystique <\/i>(London: Penguin).<\/p>\n<p>Gallop, Jane (1988), <i>Thinking Through the Body <\/i>(New York: Columbia University Press).<\/p>\n<p>Gambaudo, Sylvie (2011), \u2018We Need to Talk about Eva: The Demise of the Phallic Mother\u2019, <i>Janus Head<\/i>, 12:1, pp. 155-68.<\/p>\n<p>Haskell, Molly (1987\/1974), <i>From Reverence to Rape: The Treatment of Women in the Movies <\/i>(second edition) (Chicago &amp; London: University of Chicago Press).<\/p>\n<p>Hirsch, Marianne (1992), \u2018Maternal Voice\u2019, In Wright, E. (ed.), <i>Feminism and Psychoanalysis <\/i>(Oxford: Blackwell), pp. 252-4.<\/p>\n<p>Irigaray, Luce (1985), <i>Speculum of the Other Woman<\/i>, trans. G. C. Gill (Ithaca: Cornell University Press).<\/p>\n<p>Jameson, Fredric (1983), <i>The Political Unconscious <\/i>(Cambridge: Methuen).<\/p>\n<p>Jeremiah, Emily (2010), \u2018We Need to Talk about Gender: Mothering and Masculinity in Lionel Shriver\u2019s <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin<\/i>\u2019. In Podnieks, E. and O\u2019Reilly, A. (eds.), <i>Textual Mothers, Maternal Texts <\/i>(Waterloo: Wilfrid Laurier University Press), pp. 169-85.<\/p>\n<p>Kaplan, E. Ann (1983), <i>Women and Film: Both Sides of the Camera <\/i>(New York and London: Methuen).<\/p>\n<p>Karlyn, Kathleen Rowe (2011), <i>Unruly Girls; Unrepentant Mothers <\/i>(Austin: University of Texas Press).<\/p>\n<p>Kristeva, Julia (1980), <i>Desire in Language<\/i>, trans. L. S. Roudiez (New York: Columbia University Press).<\/p>\n<p>Kristeva, Julia (1982), <i>Powers of Horror: Essays on Abjection<\/i>, trans. L. S. Roudiez (New York: Columbia University Press).<\/p>\n<p>Kuhn, Annette (2000), \u2018A Journey Through Memory\u2019. In Radstone, S. (ed.), <i>Memory and Methodology<\/i> (Oxford and New York: Berg), pp.179-96.<\/p>\n<p>Le Doeuff, Mich\u00e8le (2002), <i>The Philosophical Imaginary, <\/i>trans. C. Gordon (London and New York: Continuum).<\/p>\n<p>McClintock, Anne (1995), <i>Imperial Leather: Race, Gender and Sexuality in the Colonial Contest<\/i> (New York and London: Routledge).<\/p>\n<p>McGill, Hannah (2011), \u2018<i>We Need to Talk about Kevin<\/i>\u2019, <i>Sight and Sound<\/i>, 21:11, pp.16-19.<\/p>\n<p>McRobbie, Angela (2009), <i>The Aftermath of Feminism <\/i>(London: Sage).<\/p>\n<p>Modleski, Tania (1982), <i>Loving with a Vengeance <\/i>(New York and London: Methuen).<\/p>\n<p>Mulvey, Laura (1989\/1981), \u2018Afterthoughts on \u201c Visual Pleasure and Narrative Cinema\u201d\u2026\u2019. In Mulvey, <i>Visual and Other Pleasures <\/i>(Basingstoke: Macmillan), pp. 29-38.<\/p>\n<p>Negra, Diane (2009), <i>What a Girl Wants? <\/i>(London: Routledge).<\/p>\n<p>O\u2019Hagan, Sean (2011), \u2018Lynne Ramsay: \u201cJust talk to me straight\u201d\u2019, The <i>Observer <\/i>2nd October. Accessed at: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.guardian.co.uk\/film\/2011\/oct\/02\/lynne-ramsay-interview-about-kevin\">http:\/\/www.guardian.co.uk\/film\/2011\/oct\/02\/lynne-ramsay-interview-about-kevin<\/a><\/p>\n<p>O\u2019Reilly, Andrea (2010), \u2018The Motherhood Memoir and the \u201cNew Momism\u201d: Biting the Hand that Feeds You\u2019. In Podnieks, E. and O\u2019Reilly, A. (eds.), <i>Textual Mothers, Maternal Texts <\/i>(Waterloo: Wilfrid Laurier University Press), pp. 203-13.<\/p>\n<p>Perlmutter, Ruth (1979), \u2018Feminine Absence: A Political Aesthetic in Chantal Akerman\u2019s <i>Jeanne Dielman\u2026<\/i>\u2019, <i>Quarterly Review of Film Studies<\/i>, 4: 2, pp. 126-33.<\/p>\n<p>Reid Boyd, Elizabeth (2005), \u2018Mothers at Home: Oppressed or Oppressors or Victims of False Dichotomies?\u2019. In A. O\u2019Reilly, M. Porter and P. Short (eds.), <i>Motherhood: Power and Oppression <\/i>(Toronto: Women\u2019s Press), pp. 195-203.<\/p>\n<p>Rich, Adrienne (1977), <i>Of Woman Born <\/i>(London: Virago).<\/p>\n<p>Robey, Tim (2011), Review of <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin<\/i>, <i>Sight and Sound<\/i>, 21:11, p. 79.<\/p>\n<p>Shriver, Lionel (2011\/2003), <i>We Need to Talk about Kevin <\/i>(London: Serpent\u2019s Tail).<\/p>\n<p>Silverman, Kaja (1988), <i>The Acoustic Mirror<\/i> (Bloomington and Indianapolis: Indiana University Press).<\/p>\n<p>Snitow, Ann (1990), \u2018A Gender Diary\u2019. In Hirsch, M. and Keller, E. F. (eds.), <i>Conflicts in Feminism <\/i>(London: Routledge), pp. 9-43.<\/p>\n<p>Sobchack, Vivian (1996), \u2018Bringing it all back Home: Family Economy and Generic Exchange\u2019. In Grant, B. K. (ed.), <i>The Dread of Difference <\/i>(Austin: University of Texas Press), pp. 143-163.<\/p>\n<p>Thornham, Sue (2012), <i>What if I Had Been the Hero? Investigating Women\u2019s Filmmaking <\/i>(London: BFI).<\/p>\n<p>Warner, Judith (2006), <i>Perfect Madness: Motherhood in the Age of Anxiety <\/i>(London: Vermilion).<\/p>\n<p>Williams, Linda (1987\/1984), \u2018&#8221;Something Else Besides a Mother&#8221;: <i>Stella Dallas<\/i> and the Maternal Melodrama\u2019. In Gledhill, C. (ed.) <i>Home is Where the Heart is<\/i> (London: B.F.I.), pp. 299-325.<\/p>\n<p>Williams, Linda Ruth (2002), \u2018Escape Artist\u2019, <i>Sight &amp; Sound<\/i>, vol. 12, Issue 10, pp. 22-25.<\/p>\n<p>Winnicott, D. W. (1984\/1947), \u2018Hate in the Countertransference\u2019. In Winnicott, <i>Through Pediatrics to Psychoanalysis: Collected Papers <\/i>(London: Karnac Books), pp.194-203.<\/p>\n<h4><b>Filmography<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><i>Alien Resurrection<\/i>. Dir. Jean-Pierre Jeunet, 1997.<\/p>\n<p><i>Daughter Rite<\/i>. Dir. Michelle Citron, 1978<\/p>\n<p><i>Jeanne Dielman, 23 Quai du Commerce, 1080 Bruxelles. <\/i>Dir. Chantal Akerman, 1975<\/p>\n<p><i>Joyce at <\/i>34. Dir. Joyce Chopra and Claudia Weill, 1972<\/p>\n<p><i>Kramer vs. Kramer. <\/i>Dir. Robert Benton, 1979.<\/p>\n<p><i>Morvern Callar. <\/i>Dir. Lynne Ramsay, 2002<\/p>\n<p><i>The Omen<\/i>. Dir. Richard Donner, 1976<\/p>\n<p><i>Peeping Tom<\/i>. Dir. Michael Powell, 1960<\/p>\n<p><i>Rosemary\u2019s Baby. <\/i>Dir. Roman Polanski, 1968.<\/p>\n<p><i>La Souriante Madame Beudet <\/i>(The Smiling Madame Beudet). Dir. Germaine Dulac, 1923<\/p>\n<p><i>Stella Dallas. <\/i>Dir. King Vidor, 1937<\/p>\n<p><i>We Need to Talk about Kevin, <\/i>Dir. 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